So my Mother dies last week...

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verminous countenance		#21	[-]
Posts: 2235 (05/15/09 7:26 PM) nerdly anglophile Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Sorry to hear about your mother Hobie. NULLUS ANXIETAS
Alkabong		#22	[-]
Posts: 22266 (05/15/09 9:49 PM) meh Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Hobie: I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom passing and I hope you are doing OK. The bank story tells me that you are still full of piss and vinegar.... which is a good thing! Peace to you, xo, Alison Last Edited By: Alkabong 05/15/09 9:53 PM. Edited 1 times.
Nancois		#23	[-]
Posts: 605 (05/15/09 11:24 PM) toucher coton Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Sorry about your mom Hobie. Your story about the bank sounds about right. No offense to anyone who works in a bank branch but they usually don't know jack squat about what to do, so they consult their manager and/or policy handbook and they never follow common sense. There is no talking to them until you have the magic documents in hand which is originals or certified copies of whatever you got. My mother died recently and the bank account stuff and car title stuff has been easy enough to deal with. It's the little, mostly worthless piece of real estate she inherited from an uncle that none of us wants but we have to deal with it. Yay? It sucks to lose your mother, even if it was "her time to go" and all that BS that people say when they can't think of anything else to say.
bob2559		#24	[-]
Posts: 5107 (05/16/09 12:44 AM) reasonable but banal Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Sorry to hear about your mom, Hobie. My cousin went thru the same thing with one of Wachovia's predecessors, Core States Bank, when his dad died. He ended up needing to drive to the courthouse in Wilmington to get a death certificate from the county prothonotary, but that's the way Delaware does it, I'm sure it's totally different in Wisconsin. Crichton: I feel totally calm. Why do I feel calm? D'Argo: Fear accompanies the possibility of death, calm shepherds it's certainty..
susieq.survivorsucks		#25	[-]
Posts: 302 (05/16/09 1:15 AM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	I'm also sorry to hear about your mom Hobie. Sounds like she did it her way, and I agree that is the best way to live and go. She lived her life exactly the way she wanted to Hope you don't mind me posting this video but it reminds me of what you posted about her.� A tribute to you and your mom. Sugar and spice and everything nice!
Hobie Lapatka		#26	[-]
Posts: 36507 (05/16/09 5:26 PM) Uh. Let me guess... Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Thank you all for your well wishes!
Wilkin		#27	[-]
Posts: 4221 (05/16/09 11:25 PM) Piecemaker Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Late to the condolence book but I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Hobie. I was at lunch today with some of my jr. high school girlfriends and the topic turned to our aging parents and the frustrations they cause. After a lot of bitching about my mom's latest disaster (eating 10 day old fish, getting the runs and now needing me to steam clean her carpet) it occured to me that I'm fortunate to still have her to complain about.... [cyberhugs]
Wild Jazie		#28	[-]
Posts: 4790 (05/17/09 9:49 AM) Lunatickled Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Hobie I'm sorry for your lose, Sounds like she had a lot of spunk for an elder.... I see that in you, in a great way.
Karolinn		#29	[-]
Posts: 11327 (05/17/09 11:05 AM) Witty subnic goes here Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Jazie says that Hobie has spunk, in a great way. ::giggle:: Hobie, I apologize for being inappropriate in your thread, but it made me laugh.
Mrs Whipple		#30	[-]
Posts: 1796 (05/17/09 12:46 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Add me to the long list of those who are very sorry for your loss. When my mother-in-law died a few years ago, when my husband took all the necessary documentation into her bank, they had him close her account and moved all funds into an account in his name. It made things so much easier as he never had to lay out all the facts for them again. *Let the poor girl go, and that poor little dog, DoDo. Elphaba, I know you dont want to hear this, but somebody has to say it. You are out of control! I mean, come on! They're just shoes! Let it go!*
sierra hotel		#31	[-]
Posts: 2931 (05/17/09 8:03 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Man, I just read this(I need to get out more.) I'm sorry for your loss, Hobie. It's all well and good that people say "at least she went peacefully" or "she went out the way she wanted", but it still sucks to lose your Mom. Peace Check six
ImALittleDespot		#32	[-]
Posts: 6467 (05/17/09 9:27 PM) ex-squeeze me? Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Hobie, I'm so sorry for your loss. Can you tell us a story about her from when you were a kid?
donbrasco4		#33	[-]
Posts: 383 (05/17/09 9:53 PM) Environmental Poindexter Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Hobie, sorry for your loss. Sounds like your mom got to live a very fulfilling life her own way.
Voodidit		#34	[-]
Posts: 33 (05/17/09 11:18 PM) Lunatic Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Sorry for your lose Hobie.
Zeep		#35	[-]
Posts: 371 (05/18/09 3:42 PM) Super Tepid Chick Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Hobie, dude! So sorry. Both about the loss of your mom and the ensuing hassles. Best of luck settling everything.
bangabong		#36	[-]
Posts: 4046 (05/18/09 8:25 PM) Depraved Masher Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Sorry about your Mom, Hobie. (Yours too Nancois). Just had my in-laws for houseguests last week and dayum they're starting to look and act old. Bracing myself now for the inevitable emotional and financial entanglements that will come with four parents passing.
Addisen		#37	[-]
Posts: 5930 (05/20/09 2:13 AM) #188 and proud of it Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	condolences on your mother's passing, hobie. she sounds as if she lived the way she wanted, still....it's tough losing a parent. best to you and yours.
Elephant Shoe		#38	[-]
Posts: 215 (05/20/09 6:24 AM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	hobie, so sorry for your loss
prairiequeen		#39	[-]
Posts: 1299 (05/20/09 12:03 PM) Resident Lunatic Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	I'm sorry for your loss.
jane1958		#40	[-]
Posts: 31967 (05/21/09 9:37 AM) double trouble Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	My condolences Hobie.

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