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        <![CDATA[ Yeah. Thanks.


I have in hand 2 checks made out to her. One for $7.12 for an over payment on  a medical bill, and one for $22.48 after cancellation of her newspaper.


She has a checking account with Wachovia. I write &quot;For Deposit Only&quot; on the back of the checks. Go to a local Wachovia, get a deposit slip, fill it
out and sashay my fat ass up to a teller.


Me: &quot;Hello&quot;


Wachovia Teller: &quot;Hello&quot;


Me: &quot;I&#39;d like to make this deposit.&quot; Hand her the 2... ]]>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: So my Mother dies last week... ]]></title>
			<link>http://realitysucks.yuku.com/reply/507713/t/So-my-Mother-dies-last-week-.html#reply-507713</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Condolences dear. It&#39;s difficult losing a parent. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ So sorry to hear about your Mom, Hobie. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ My condolences Hobie. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I&#39;m sorry for your loss.  <img src="http://i182.photobucket.com/albums/x117/hobielapatka/emoticons/grouphug1.gif" alt="image">
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			<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 11:03:16 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ hobie, so sorry for your loss <img src="http://www.ezboard.com/intl/aenglish/images/emoticons/frown.gif"> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ condolences on your mother&#39;s passing, hobie. she sounds as if she lived the way she wanted, still....it&#39;s tough losing a parent. best to you and yours. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <br>
Sorry about your Mom, Hobie. (Yours too Nancois). Just had my in-laws for houseguests last week and dayum they&#39;re starting to look and act old. Bracing
myself now for the inevitable emotional and financial entanglements that will come with four parents passing.
<br>
<br>
<br> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Hobie, dude! So sorry. Both about the loss of your mom and the ensuing hassles. Best of luck settling everything.
<br> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Sorry for your lose Hobie. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Hobie, sorry for your loss. Sounds like your mom got to live a very fulfilling life her own way.
<br> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Hobie, I&#39;m so sorry for your loss. Can you tell us a story about her from when you were a kid? ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Man, I just read this(I need to get out more.)
<br>
<br>
I&#39;m sorry for your loss, Hobie. It&#39;s all well and good that people say &quot;at least she went peacefully&quot; or &quot;she went out the way she
wanted&quot;, but it still sucks to lose your Mom.
<br>
<br>
Peace ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Add me to the long list of those who are very sorry for your loss.
<br>
<br>
When my mother-in-law died a few years ago, when my husband took all the necessary documentation into her bank, they had him close her account and moved all
funds into an account in his name.  It made things so much easier as he never had to lay out all the facts for them again. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Jazie says that Hobie has spunk, in a great way.
<br>
<br>
::giggle::
<br>
<br>
Hobie, I apologize for being inappropriate in your thread, but it made me laugh. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Hobie I&#39;m sorry for your lose, Sounds like she had a lot of spunk for an elder....
<br>
I see that in you, in a great way. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Late to the condolence book but I&#39;m so sorry to hear of your loss, Hobie.
<br>
<br>
I was at lunch today with some of my jr. high school girlfriends and the topic turned to our aging parents and the frustrations they cause.   After a lot of
bitching about my mom&#39;s latest disaster (eating 10 day old fish, getting the runs and now needing me to steam clean her carpet) it occured to me that
I&#39;m fortunate to still have her to complain about....
<br>
<br>
[cyberhugs] ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Thank you all for your well wishes! ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I&#39;m also sorry to hear about your mom Hobie. Sounds like she did it her way, and I agree that is the best way to live and go.
<br>

<blockquote>
  She lived her life exactly the way she wanted to
</blockquote>
<br>
<br>
Hope you don&#39;t mind me posting this video but it reminds me of what you posted about her.� A tribute to you and your mom.
<br>
<span><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/2AaElp-mimg&amp;hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowScriptAccess="never"... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 00:15:40 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Sorry to hear about your mom, Hobie.  
<br>
<br>
My cousin went thru the same thing with one of Wachovia&#39;s predecessors, Core States Bank, when his dad died.  He ended up needing to drive to the
courthouse in Wilmington to get a death certificate from the county prothonotary, but that&#39;s the way Delaware does it, I&#39;m sure it&#39;s totally
different in Wisconsin.
<br>
<br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 23:44:37 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Sorry about your mom Hobie.  Your story about the bank sounds about right.  No offense to anyone who works in a bank branch but they usually don&#39;t know
jack squat about what to do, so they consult their manager and/or policy handbook and they never follow common sense.  There is no talking to them until you
have the magic documents in hand which is originals or certified copies of whatever you got.
<br>
<br>
My mother died recently and the bank account stuff and car title stuff has been... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Yeah. Thanks.
<br>
<br>
I have in hand 2 checks made out to her. One for $7.12 for an over payment on  a medical bill, and one for $22.48 after cancellation of her newspaper.
<br>
<br>
She has a checking account with Wachovia. I write &quot;For Deposit Only&quot; on the back of the checks. Go to a local Wachovia, get a deposit slip, fill it
out and sashay my fat ass up to a teller.
<br>
<br>
Me: &quot;Hello&quot;
<br>
<br>
Wachovia Teller: &quot;Hello&quot;
<br>
<br>
Me: &quot;I&#39;d like to... ]]></description>

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